The recognition of suffering and the possibility that we have a hand in its genesis or termination is the most basic human goodness

I kept little miss everything in the sun long past the efficacy of the SPF I dutifully applied before leaving the house.

As a result, Dees was sunburned. I have yet to find a worse or comparable feeling to that felt when your child is injured or ill. I was angry at the perpetrator, and he was me. Realizing exactly what happened (we stayed out past our usual 1-1.5 hour swimming sessions), resolving to burn into my mind the sight of my little girls back, and methodizing the effective defense mechanism, I can feel a little better in knowing we have met a gentle cruelty of nature and emerged only with permanent lessons and temporary redness.

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I received this picture while at the memphis airport reeling from the news my flight would be delayed an 1 hour and 30 minutes.  

(In hindsight, I should have been grateful for the blessing it was only 90 minutes, and then maybe it wouldn't have turned into 4 hours.)  

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While sitting in the corner at my pity party, I decided to think about my baby girl and boy and vowed to do as little preparing them for skin cancer while maximizing outdoor time as possible. 

I suspect my dear wife was planning on exercising grace at a different level than she ultimately did (I hurt the woman's child(ren)) but instead of telling me I should have put more sunscreen on, she let me feel it was okay to briefly feel it was not okay. 

 

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She then recognized I was hurting a little too. 

 

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I partied as a result of an upgrade (brought snacks back to first row of coach to chill with a yoga instructor I met). 

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Basically emptied the snack basket and liquor cabinet. 

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A little Baileys. Then waited almost 30 minutes after landing to deplane.  

 

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This guy's shirt said "due to unfortunate circumstances I'm currently sober" and I wanted to take a picture with him. The next day I realized that all that was visible was "fortunate stances sober" which might contain some hidden meaning. 

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This was around 3am. Longest DFW airport line (behind security) I've seen in my three decades as a traverler. 

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Got out of the airport before 4, and home before 5. Long days and long nights. All part of the journey. 

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